The Art of Displaying and Cutting Your Wedding Cake

Displaying and Cutting Your Wedding Cake … yes, there is an art to it. The wedding cake is a focal point of the reception. Second to the bride and groom. The first thing you see when you enter the room. The cake is usually displayed from the beginning of the reception until the cutting. So, choose a filling and icing that can hold up for the duration. If you’re adding special lighting to the room, add a spotlight on the cake table. Otherwise, place the cake in a focal point where the guests can see it.  (Cake pictured on left is from Wedding Cake On Sugar.)

Cake table secrets

The base of the cake determines the size of the table.   Make sure the table size is relative to the cake.  You don’t want the cake to look too small for the table; or too big.   To embellish the table try these tricks:

  • Wrap picture wire (as if tying a package) around the tabletop,  after the tables are covered, you can attach swags, garlands, and sprays with safety pins to the wires in the appropriate places.
  • Layer sheets and/or tulle to give the tablecloth fullness and make it look more elegant.
  • A nice touch is to make use of those expensive bridesmaid bouquets after the ceremony – have the maitre d’ or wedding consultant discreetly take the bridesmaid’s bouquets and arrange them around the cake.
  • Have the cake placed on a gorgeous cake stand (like the one to the right.)  Again, a beautiful addition to the cake and reusable for parties you may have in the future
  • Add a small picture framed picture to the table of the grooms parents and bride’s parents.
Make sure the cake is delivered at least two hours before the reception begins. Cakes are rarely transported fully assembled.  This gives the caterer time to position the cake, and the reception hall to make sure everything is in order.


Cutting the Cake

Prior to the wedding, be sure to choose a cake knife and serving set.  These make a great heirloom that you can use for years.  And, they are reusable, long after the wedding. 
Everyone looks forward to the cake cutting.  Traditionally, the first shared piece symbolizes the couple’s first meal as husband and wife. The cake cutting also used to signal the end of the wedding, as the bride and groom would then change and be off.

Have the DJ or Host announce the cake cutting. The bride and/or groom often make their toast at this time, presenting a perfect photo opportunity. After the cutting and toasts are completed, the band plays quietly in the background until the bride and groom finish exchanging their first bites, whereupon the music swells into a full-fledged dance number.  You will usually be asked to pick a song for both the cake cutting and the following dance number.


When you create your wedding day schedule, put in bold type: “Entire band should be ready to play immediately after cake cutting.” Many bands seem to think this is the perfect time for a break. Just the opposite — if the music ebbs now, your party is over.

The headwaiter should show you where to make the first cut, particularly if the cake has a dummy layer (a fake bottom layer that serves as support for the cake). To symbolize the couples’ shared life together, the groom places his right hand over the bride’s, which holds the knife. Together they cut a small piece from the back of the bottom tier. Traditionally, the groom feeds the bride first, a small mouthful easily washed down by a sip of champagne. Then the bride feeds the groom.

After the photos, the banquet directors should have the cake taken into the kitchen to be cut quickly and efficiently.  They should also put cake bags out on the table for the guests to take home with them.

Some places charge a cake-cutting fee — usually $1 a slice — to cover the cost of the “setup” (plates and forks). If you strongly feel that this charge is inappropriate, then you should attempt to expunge this clause from your contract.

Tips for Saving the Top Tier

Traditionally, a couple saves the top tier of the wedding cake to share on their first anniversary. Unfortunately, the cake often ends up somewhere in the back of the freezer, squished beyond recognition!


Therefore, make sure you have everything in order before you freeze the cake.  To freeze the top tier for your first anniversary bring a properly sized box, saran wrap and foil. Leave  instructions for airtight wrapping (freeze the cake first for a few hours before it’s wrapped).  Wrap the cake in saran wrap tightly and then wrap again in foil.  Place cake in box and rewrap again with saran wrap and foil.  This, to make sure there is no freezer burn.  Then make arrangements to have someone either store it in their freezer (usually one of the moms and dads) or placed in yours. An easier option,  put in an order for a small cake of the same flavor to be scheduled for baking and pickup on your first-year anniversary.

Option three is even easier. 

You can buy the Silver Keepsake Cake Box.  This box is made specifically for storing your cake, so it’s as perfect and tasty in a year as it is now. Printed with a beautiful silver filigree design, the box is made of sturdy cardboard with a slick coat surface for durable storage and easy clean up. Includes a removable silver board for easy cake transfer, and a freezer-proof plastic liner.

My opinion.  You’ve spent alot of money on the wedding, why not buy a nice box to ensure that your cake is safe until your anniversary.  Under $25.00;  it’s a great idea : )

Sources:  Dummies

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Sandals for the Barefoot Bride!

I can’t resist the statement ….. “You don’t have to be barefoot and pregnant to get married in these really cool barefoot sandals!!!!! You can wear these sandals anytime!
Looking for something comfortable to wear to that beach party or wedding? Check out Jewels by Michelle. Adorn your feet with these beautiful barefoot sandals featuring Swarovski pearls. These are one of the most popular barefoot sandals on the market, and have been chosen again and again by both brides and bridesmaids. Shown with white pearls and white accents, available in many standard and custom pearl colors for the entire bridal party. Stretch fit.
Flower Power! I love the blue for the bridesmaids …. Swarovski crystals are unmatched in quality and brilliance. Using these beautiful crystals, our Flower Power Crystal Collection adds a touch of sparkle and glamour to any ocassion. Absolutely beautiful! Available in many popular colors.
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There’s No Fire! Paper Wedding Cake Toppers

Rock Paper Scissors

Rock Paper Scissors

PLEASE … NO CANDLES NEAR THE CAKE!!!!

I love these super cute, one of a kind paper wedding cake toppers from Concarta. The unique paper sculptures can be made in a variety of styles and colors and can be used as wedding cake toppers or as accent decorations. Concarta also makes decorative paper flowers that coordinate with the toppers or stand on their own as decorations for weddings, birthdays, and other special occasions.

Check out their site to view the intimate details of these fab sculpture.

Original post at Paper Crave.

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All Signs Point to A Great Wedding!

A craft project for the creative couple. Make a sign announcing your Wedding Date! Looks great in the reception foyer on an easle. Also a great decoration for the bridal shower!

These directions are provided courtesy of Station Bay.com. To create any one of the above personalized wedding signs, you will find it simple to do and it doesn’t require any artistic or creative ability. To re-create the “Set of Pink Roses” sign, you will need the following materials: blue painter’s tape, alphabetical letters and numbers, light pink paint, paint roller, glue and the “Roses and other Beautiful Flowers” metal sign.

First, use the blue painter’s tape and create the staight and horizonal lines that you see in the picture above. Make sure that the top of the blue painters tape is right under the words that you want to paint over. When step one is accomplished, the second step is to shake up your pink paint and apply at least two even coats of paint as shown. You will have to wait at least 20 minutes after each coat to make sure the paint is dry enough for the next application of paint. Now, when the paint is dry, it’s time to use the stencils to personalize the sign. But before you apply the stencils, you will have to slowly remove the blue painter’s tape from the sign. Before gluing the stencils to the sign, it’s important to lay out the stencils on the sign to make sure everything fits perfectly. When everything is glued and secured, you will have a beautiful and personalized wedding gift.

When creating the wooden plank sign design, you may use the “Fairy Tale Elf Flower” sign or any wooden sign that you enjoy doing. Then, follow the same steps as mentioned for the metal sign above except for 2 minor changes. First, use the painter’s tape to create an oval area for stencils instead of the horizontal and vertical lines. Secondly, use a small artist paint brush with light blue paint to create a border around the letters that are off the painted blue oval.

When on display at any wedding, these personalized wedding signs will be a great gift idea for the newly married couple. These signs will look great in a decorative wooden frame placed on an easel or add some beautiful, floral plants will definitely create an attractive focus point for many guests to enjoy and remember.

PS - If you are looking for a different floral looking sign, then this “Everything for the Garden Sign” might be for you.

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LucyPhone.com ~ No Sitting on Hold and Wasting Time

The pefect tool when planning your wedding.  No more lost time sitting on hold … Check out  LucyPhone.com - Pure Genius … Why Didn’t I Think of This?????

How LucyPhone Works:

Lucy will call you first then “patch” you through to the company.

Use the company’s phone menu just as you normally would. Get put on hold? Press ** and your phone will be disconnected but Lucy will stay on the line.

Once a live agent is on the line, Lucy will call you back immediately and connect you both. Get put on hold again, just press ** again!

Probably one of the best new computer ideas this year!

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ShakeWeight for Toned Arms … Got to Look Good in the Gown!

Check out the ShakeWeights at Dr. Leonards! Under 20.00 and it’s getting rave reviews!

You want to look good in your sleeveless or short sleeved gown … right?  Then you have to have toned arms.

ShakeWeight™ is the revolutionary way to shape, tone, and firm your entire upper body-including shoulders, triceps, biceps, and chest-in just 6 minutes per day. Based on the new workout technology of Dynamic Inertia, it uses kinetic energy to engage and ignite your muscles for a lean, toned look you’ll love showing off. Steel & plastic, 2.5 lbs. Instructional DVD included.
Great for toning the arms!
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Classic 50’s Inspired Overlay Dress

Retro inspired wedding?  Check out this fabulous retro overlay dress.  Very reminiscent of the 40’s and 50’s.  June Allison comes to mind …
Just added  “Penny.”  You can’t get more classic retro than this fabulous overlay dress.  Reminds me of something June Allyson would wear in a Jimmy Stewart Movie… love this classic dress.  Nice for prom, weddings or evenings. 
This gorgeous dress is a violet color, made from a stretch cotton sateen. It has a stretch polka dot mesh overlay over the top bodice, and a keyhole closure with a velveteen bow in the back. The sweetheart neckline and nipped waist compliment your curves. Limited Edition! Would look great with a black petticoat!  At Get Go Retro.
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Wedding Hair - The long and the short of it.

Wedding day hair. The most important thing to remember is not to go overboard. You want to look like “you” on your special day. Dress your hair up so it reflects your personality. The “natural” days of plain straight hair are finally ending as today’s bride looks for “more.” More fun, more beauty, and more individuality are what brides are in search of. And a little hair bling helps.

Celebrity hairstyles are great to look at when planning your hairstyle as well. Of course it helps that celebrities are everywhere, but the latest celebrity hairstyles are a useful source of inspiration because celebrities are usually on the cutting-edge of what’s new and trendy- it’s their job (after all) to make sure that limelight doesn’t fade away. And, another great tool … check out Last but not least: Check out The Hairstylist and View Yourself in Over 8,000 Hairstyles!these fabulously simply hair adornments. From a simple flower to ostritch feathers!

Whether tucked behind your ear or nestled next to your chignon, this silk flower is an unexpected way to add softness and texture to your look in white or ivory. The center is embellished with just a few well-placed Swarovski crystals for sparkle. The flower measures 4″ across and a 1.75″ silver alligator clip on the backside allows you to attach the piece easily and securely even in fine, thin hair.

Black is back! The Fantasy Onyx Headband is a delicate headpiece encrusted with brilliant Austrian rhinestones, chunky faux black onyx stones, and Swarovski crystals to form a modern scroll rhinestone pattern that sits on the side of the head. This tiara is perfect for the Modern bride who has a gown with black accents. The side detailing measures 4 inches long and 1 ¾ inches wide along a 14-inch rhinestone studded band.

An artistic and abstract arrangement of rhinestones sits to one side of this rhinestone encrusted headband. Pin loops are located at each end to allow you to secure the tiara easily to your hair with bobby pins.

This headband is intricately designed with loads of white feathers to form an extraordinary side spray, along with Swarovski crystals and Austrian rhinestones. The side spray measures about 6 1/2 inches at it longest point along a 15-inch rhinestone curved band.
Advice for Picking Your Hair Piece:
  • Pick your gown first
  • Decide on a hairstyle
  • Then, choose the headpiece

You don’t have to buy the headpiece that matches or supposedly “goes” with the dress. Buy one that suits you and “complements” your dress; whether it be pearls, fefathers or a veil. Tip: Match the flowers in your bouquet if you want to add some color.

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Love. Put in writing : )

What the world needs now is love, sweet love. And, it’s so sweet when it’s written and not text messaged : ) Check out these adorable little gifts for your sweetheart!

“Envelope” Pendant Uniquely designed “envelope” pendant opens to reveal a heart-shaped letter with your own personalized message. Created in Stainless Steel heart pendant is adorned with a raised golden heart. Engrave the heart-shaped insert with a message up to 3 lines 12 characters each line. Pendant is suspended on an 20″ ball chain.

“Live to Write, Write to Live Pen” While the message “”Live to Write, Write to Live,”" will appeal to those who adore the written word, the design will certainly strike a cord with those of the medical world. An important reminder to make your passions a part of your life. Black ballpoint pen. Made in Taiwan. This item has been discontinued. When it sells out, it will no longer be available. We apologize for any inconvenience.”

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The Bride Lights Up the Room In This Gown

Very cool idea on the Coquette website. A friend of hers made this lighted wedding dress for her friend Julia’s beachy evening wedding in Hawaii. Very cool indeed. I would say she lit up the groom’s life : ) Sorry Debbie Boone!
Alison writes: It was decided that the dress should honor the metallic look but with a vintage inspired style. To do this, I focused on creating a soft and glowing design that played with the Victorian shape of the dress. The lighting design was intended to be simple with warm and cool whites. There were no flashing bulbs or severe bright spots. The spectacle of a lighted dress is enough on its own, There was no need to over do it with intense changing colors or a blinding reflection.
It was decided that the dress would have a metallic look but with a vintage inspired style. To do this, the designer focused on creating a soft and glowing design that played with the Victorian shape of the dress. The lighting design was intended to be simple with warm and cool whites. There were no flashing bulbs or severe bright spots. The spectacle of a lighted dress is enough on its own, so there was no need to over do it with intense changing colors or a blinding reflection.
So to those of you who want something that gives the illusion of the future, a 2010 dress : ) or if you are having an evening wedding, you may want to check out the Luminex fabric which can be purchased directly from the Luminex Corporation. To work with it, get a sample from http://www.romanillumination.com/.
(Photography by: Carlos Linares III)
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